How to disagree

Editorial posted by Barry Parr on Apr 06, 2008 at 10:10 am in  About Coastsider Click to email this story

If you’re involved in our discussions on Coastsider, even if you’re reading and not writing, Paul Graham has written a good description of how to disagree in online forums and how to judge the quality of your disagreement.  This is a pretty sound framework for thinking about what you’re writing and evaluating what you’re reading.

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Comment by Barry Parr  on  Apr 06  at  12:33pm  •  All my comments • 

I thought this was pretty interesting.  We certainly see plenty of examples of name-calling, ad hominem, and contradiction in Coastside forums—although we generally filter out the name-calling before you see it.

Even in well-argued discussions, you’re unlikely to see anyone persuaded, but readers in the middle often get enough information to make up their minds.

I also think that in online forums outright propaganda doesn’t do very well because it’s easy to dispute. Propaganda does a lot better in broadcast media, or in discussions among like-minded folks who inclined to support the propagandist’s point of view.

 
 
Comment by Ken Johnson  on  Apr 07  at  8:16am  •  All my comments • 

Barry,

The linked article is a very worthwhile read.

I would disagree although about “you’re unlikely to see anyone persuaded”. In my professional life as well as our little world on the coastside, I have ‘proven’ the contrary.

Professionally, I never entered an organization which was number one - my job was to make it number one. As an individual performer or as a manager, I characterized each part of the organization:

Sales - taking NO as a request for more information.
Marketing - provide the formation.
Advertising - provide it repetitively.
Technical and engineering - make the wild claims work.
Legal - address the: “OMG, you said WHAT!”

When I moved to the coastside:
no one knew of, let alone supported, the concept of “growth management”;
limitations on where or what developers might build - unheard of;
Etc

CUSD needs dramatic improvement - a work in progress?

Ken Johnson

Comment by Anneliese Agren  on  Apr 09  at  9:12am  •  All my comments • 

Good Read.  Will take that into consideration.

Except for some hyperbole and non-sequitors, I very much enjoy the informative comments on Coastsider.  Instead of a limited conversation taking place amongst a few individuals, Coastsider’s online forum has allowed any concerned party to participate in the discussion - whether we agree or disagree.

The comments, they could be so much less relevant and inflammatory... but here at Coastsider, they never dig to that level.  :)

 
 

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