Opinion: James brings Christmas to Half Moon Bay

posted by Bill Grout on Dec 26, 2006 at 08:55 am in  Community
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I don’t like people much, you know. I find people kind of nasty and aggressive. The stupid teenage warriors in Iraq and all that

The people I like, like my wife’s friends who call themselves the cupcakes, with their silver and golden streaks of goodness inside them, are far and few between. And it cuts me off. And I don’t want to write anymore. Why would you want to perform, do anything for “them?”

But in my little town of Half Moon Bay I see James, He’s an elderly black man, homeless, who lives in a tent down by the creek. And I like James, I like his style. He’s always dressed in clean clothes, something special, you see him in matching khaki pants and shirt and a safari hat on his head, or a black sweater with a black beret, as he walks the homeless rounds around the town. I give him five dollars whenever I see him, because I like his style. And I pull up and say, “Hi James, how’s it going?” and I give him the money. And he always gives me a true smiling look, as my grandmother would say, “pleased as punch” and I feel a little freer.

And today for Christmas, I pulled up to James in my new car that I like to drive. And I said, “Happy holidays, James!” as I gave him ten dollars. And he said, “I have a Christmas present for you.” And he went to open the grocery bag he had under his arm. And I said, “That’s okay, James,” Meaning no, because I didn’t want to take something he might really need. And he said, “It’s a Christmas ornament.” And I knew it would be a sin if I didn’t take his gift. And I said, “Okay.” And he reached into his bag and gave me a beautiful trumpeting silver and brass angel. And it was heavy in my hand as the heart I daily carried. And I said thanks. And wished him a happy holidays as I drove away.

And as I drove to work, through the traffic and snarls, I felt the sunlight again. And I thought how I own a million dollar house, and James lives in a tent, And he gave me a gift.

Me, a gift.

And that’s why I cried. Man, I just couldn’t stop crying as I drove. Because a homeless man gave me a gift that put my world back in place.

All glory to James.

Comments

Comment 1 by Anneliese  on  Dec 27  at  7:44pm  •  All my comments • 

Oh that's just beautiful. I've got tears. True spirit of the holiday. Thank you so much for sharing this with us! :)

Comment 2 by Suzanne  on  Dec 27  at  8:29pm  •  All my comments • 

Good story, worthy of O'Henry. I don't know you, but I like you for it. James is a good soul; he deserves more than glory, more than a tent by the creek. Any volunteers?

Comment 3 by Chris Dicker  on  Dec 28  at  10:59am  •  All my comments • 

Bill, Nice story, I've seen James around and am impressed by his dignity. Thanks for sharing.

Comment 4 by Bill Grout  on  Dec 28  at  6:23pm  •  All my comments • 

I'm glad you all know James, too. That's great. Thanks for the kind comments.

Best, Bill Grout

Comment 5 by adischi  on  Dec 29  at  10:05am  •  All my comments • 

Wonderful story. Glad you shared it with us all.

Comment 6 by Cheri Parr  on  Dec 30  at  11:51am  •  All my comments • 

Bill - I hope you'll write more - you story is inspiring and captures so much that is missed by so many. As someone who works every day with the homeless and families on the edge I can tell you that your story is repeated every day in a hundred different ways. I am always touched and humbled by the way our clients are some of the first to reach out, the first to help, the first to volunteer. Many is the day that our food bank is being stocked by the very people who need help the most. Thank you for your touching slice of reality. This is just the sort of writing I'd like to see more of on Coastsider.com.

Comment 7 by Bill Grout  on  Dec 31  at  10:38am  •  All my comments • 

Hi Cheri,

Thanks for your kind comment about Jame's story. Much appreciated. And I think it's interesting that those who have been helped recognize the strength of helping others and return the favor. If you've received compassion, you know it's great value.

If you're interested, here's a small video that has a brief glimpse of James. I made it last Spring.

http://www.coastside.net/krbg/Spring/Spring.html

Once the movie appears, just click play and it'll start playing right away.

On a completely different note, here's video of my family sending Best Wishes to the haters on YouTube.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Cn1OTg6PWdA

And my best to the Parrs!

Bill Grout

Comment 8 by Ellen Taliaferro, MD  on  Jan 03  at  10:54am  •  All my comments • 

Hi, Bill: I echoe Cheri's comments.

Loved the videos and encourage the creation of another project: Videos to a five year old to echo "Letters to a Five Year Old." Please do keep sharing these wonderful thoughts and projects with us Coastsiders.

I hope the Hater family will make more appearances, too.

Here's to the Cupcakes!

Ellen


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